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In which I question my homemaking and prepare for three days of Feasting

November 22, 2010 by Minnesota Mom Filed Under: Felicity, Keeping It Real, Minnesota Me, My Girls, Special Events 13 Comments

Updated to Add: It just occurred to me that this title sounds like a reference to Thanksgiving. It’s not! I can’t even think about Thanksgiving until we’re finished with these two birthdays.

Lawda mercy, but it’s true.

Here we go again.

November Birthdays 2010

Yesterday was my daughter Cate’s 10th birthday.

Today we celebrate Felicity’s 8th.

It’s crazy, it’s busy, it’s crazy-busy. I grit my teeth and hang on for the ride.

You know, though, and this is not to be uber-pious or anything, I am seeing that Mary has it all in hand. I was stressed—stressed, I tell you!—about how I could possibly get everything done. Cate was in Sleeping Beauty this weekend (a lowly trumpeter, but she really shone 😉 and I needed her to be at the performance by 12 noon yesterday.

My Sweet Trumpeter
A blurry phone-photo but you get the idea.

Two hours early, ‘cause that’s how it goes.

I fretted and fretted over the Mass we’d attend because it is hard—so hard!—to make it to our church by 9:00. That was the option if we were to attend Holy Family, because the 11:00 a.m. Mass would get us to the performance too late.

Suddenly—and this was a leap for me—I thought outside the box. (So unlike me to think outside the box, which is why I’m thanking Mary.) Why not see if there’s a Mass in the vicinity? Granted, it’s an unfamiliar suburb…in the hinterlands of the Cities, as it were…

Why not? I googled “Catholic Churches in ‘This’ Suburb…”

And I found one.

A church named after the feast that it was: The Presentation of Mary, on my daughter’s special day.

Very cool, no?

And the rector was a priest that I knew—a wonderful priest that had baptized Jem and that I hadn’t seen for ten whole years.

Fr. Huberty and My Girls
Yet another blurry phone-photo.
Take away that photographer’s license!

So things are falling into place. Hooray! We are celebrating three days in a row because tomorrow is when our guests can come and so that’s when we’ll have the cake & party.

If I go AWOL you know why.

Meanwhile, I’ll tell you what happened at breakfast this morning, because it was Very Humbling and caused me Grave Concern. We were eating our birthday breakfast of choice (see above photo) when Felicity wrinkled her nose and announced:

“I smell dog food.”

We don’t own a dog, as perhaps you know. (Sigh.)

“I do, too!” Jem was quick to chime in. “It’s not dog food, though. It smells like Greta!”

Owning a guinea pig is one thing. But being told that your home smells like a guinea pig? That is grounds for going back to Mom School.

Stinky Girl
What’d I do?!

My eyebrows wrinkled up in concern but then—to my relief!—I recognized the source of the offensive smell. It was…

The wild rice boiling on the stove.

The rice for the soup that Cate requested for her birthday meal.

(Have you ever smelled wild rice as it’s cooking?)

(You haven’t?)

(Well then, now you know.)

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  1. Jamie Jo says

    November 22, 2010 at 4:45 pm

    Happy blessed birthday to your sweet birthday girls!!!

    I understand totally, we have a birthday marathon in Sept!

    You are a wonderful homemaker!!!
    birthday marathons would cause any mother to question that though!

    I love wild rice things, but hate that smell. I'm wrinkling my nose, can you tell?

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  2. minnesotamom says

    November 22, 2010 at 5:03 pm

    My sister makes wild rice casserole, which is delicious but odoriferous as it cooks.

    Would you like to know what she affectionately calls it? I'm going to tell you.

    She calls it "Stinky Butt Casserole."

    I'm sorry, but she does.

    And that's my crazy, happy sister.

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  3. KC says

    November 22, 2010 at 5:10 pm

    I don't think I've ever cooked wild rice. Now, I don't know if I ever want to. ;o)

    I just love that picture of Cate. I LOVE ballet and little ballerinas.

    Will she be in the Nutcracker?

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  4. KC says

    November 22, 2010 at 5:11 pm

    PS Happy Birthday to Cate and Felicity.

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  5. RealMom4Life says

    November 22, 2010 at 6:14 pm

    Happy birthday to your girls!

    Is that Father Mark Huberty? I haven't seen him in probably 10 years. He's a wonderful priest!

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  6. Sarah says

    November 22, 2010 at 6:16 pm

    Happy Birthday to your 8 and 10 year old girls! We have a birthday whirlwind in November, too, and we just had our last party on Saturday. I feel total relief =)

    Congrats to Cate, too, for being in the play! My oldest wants to be in a play so badly … Thankfully, her school is having one in the spring. She can't wait!

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  7. Michelle says

    November 22, 2010 at 6:44 pm

    Fr.H baptized my oldest at St. Charles almost ten years ago, too!

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  8. Em says

    November 22, 2010 at 9:06 pm

    Go Trumpeter! She looks great!
    Happy birthday to both girls!

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  9. Christine says

    November 22, 2010 at 9:14 pm

    Birthday Blessings to all of the kiddos.

    And that lower lip on Greta is so sweet!

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  10. Kathy says

    November 22, 2010 at 9:36 pm

    Grew up at Presentation and getting married there in July! Glad to see you found a Mass over here on the east side. God bless!

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  11. Lori N from MN says

    November 22, 2010 at 9:39 pm

    You know…. the smell of wild rice boiling is not THAT bad — it's about as bad a broccoli or cauliflower steaming… and the end result is oh so YUMMY!!!

    Happy, happy birthday to your girls!! Praying you all have a great (snowy) celebration!

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  12. Suzie says

    November 22, 2010 at 10:12 pm

    I haven't prepared wild rice before, but am planning to in the next couple weeks (my mom's stuffing recipe with turkey leftovers)… so thanks for the heads up! I'll make sure to turn my cooktop vent on HIGH.

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  13. scmom (Barbara) says

    November 23, 2010 at 2:24 am

    "In which I question my homemaking" — BAH!

    Reply

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