A wedding reception, to be sure, in a little town in North Dakota.
I love little towns in North Dakota.
Where else would you find an American Legion Hall that looks like the top half of a barn?
Where else would you find so many cars & trucks & tractors with North Dakota plates? (Yep, that was a great big clue I gave you. And do tractors even have license plates? I’d make you wait here while I called my brother-in-law but I’m too lazy.)
And finally, where else would you find scores and scores of this Midwestern gal’s family? We’re talking nieces & nephews & aunts & uncles & sisters & former classmates. (Okay, so that last group is not technically family…but at a wedding reception, who cares?!)
Only here can you find those things.
In North Dakota.
My former home.
Home is what leads you to make a four-hour drive on Saturday and another four-hour drive on Sunday. We went for the wedding of my nephew, Adam, and his sunshiny new bride, Emily.
Adam is the son of my oldest sister, Yvonne, whom I have blogged about before and who is perfect. That is Yvonne in the opening photo. Isn’t she cute? Aren’t her teeth perfect? Won’t she kill me when she sees I’ve posted this photo?
I love to go home to see my big sister Bun, who goes by Bun (I think) because someone (maybe me) couldn’t pronounce Yvonne when she was little. My sister Bun is the type of gal who can clean the house while watching her grandchildren while making homemade bread for supper. She makes wedding cakes for her children and hosts the groom’s dinner to boot. (At Adam’s, she went with a seasonal theme and served sugar cookies done up like sunflowers and Black-eyed Susans. Too cute!)
So yes. Even though it was the second North Dakota wedding for us this summer, we were there. Why? Because it’s family.
And because you get cute photos after the wedding.
At this point, though, Angela had had enough wedding:
Felicity cheered up considerably at the reception,
where she was able to restore her blood sugar and even
raise it to an impressively high level.
Yes, family is why we make the drive. Family is why we leave the house period despite our raging seasonal allergies. (I should have stayed home, really, blowing my nose and popping Allegra. My word, do you get hit as hard as I do?)
We go home for our family; we go home because it’s home.
I read once that a man travels the world over in search of what he needs, and returns home to find it.
especially when you’ve just found out that you can’t stay for the dance.
This is my niece’s [new] husband Chris, whose wedding I documented here.
You know what? I agree.
All for the Greater Glory of God,
Jen says
Boy, that one daughter of yours looks just like you. The smile, the eyes, everything! Yes, family is why we do the things we do, and they are worth it. Congratulations! Sorry about the allergies..:-( My seven year old has them so bad she’s getting the shots, so I understand your misery. 🙁
T with Honey says
Family is the reason we spend 7 hrs in a car on a fairly regular basis as well. I’m crazy enough about my family that I’m considering doing it later this fall just to attend my cousin’s baby shower.
There is no other place where I feel so comfortable, loved and, well, at home.
Journey of Truth says
Yes, we take the every other year drive to Iowa to be with my husband’s family. Mine are in WA state so it’s a once every few years round trip flight. Now with a move to HI looming next Summer, both families get skipped and they can come see us!
Love this post!!
Neuropoet says
Wonderful post, Margaret! Family really is what it’s all about…
~Jenny
patjrsmom says
Oh Margaret!
The photos and the story say it all. There really is no place like home.
God Bless,
Jane
Tricia says
Heeeeeeey – you never blogged about MY wedding!!! 😛
We love you and miss you…hope to see you soon. We may have to plan a trip out to the cities…