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Clearing the Cobwebs

October 30, 2010 by Minnesota Mom Filed Under: Just Me, Minnesota Me, Special Events, Stuff I Think About While Folding Laundry 6 Comments

It’s a funny time of the year, isn’t it? The streets are crowded with ghouls & ghosts while the church halls are filled with pint-sized saints.

(We’ll celebrate both the secular on Sunday and the sacred on Monday, which, I am DISMAYED to discover, is not a holy day of obligation this year. Aargh and aargh and I’m very frustrated.)

(But I digress.)

We are on the road at present, at least, the girls & Anthony & I are. We are in the wee little town of Wahpeton (my hometown) in the great state of North Dakota, where we have come to celebrate my mother’s birthday. She’ll be 87 years young tomorrow! No small feat, that, and the girls just love being home with Grandma.

(I’ll have photos to upload when I return. I am fond of photographing my hometown.)

So this has got to be quick, as I am clacking away in the local library while the girls (and the midget terrorist) explore the children’s section one floor down. I wanted to share a seasonal metaphor with you–one that came to me during prayer yesterday and one I’ve been chewing on ever since.

On our kitchen wall at home are several painted spider webs. We decorate with cob webs–what a novelty!–in honor of the season. On Monday we will take them down, however, to be replaced with a multitude of hand-colored saints.

(Thank you, Charlotte!)

(No time to link!)

This made me think about the cobwebs in my head. You know the ones, perhaps–those frightful strands that clog one’s thoughts and put a shadowy mist over all things peaceful. There are the webs of envy and pride–the worry over this or the anxiety over that–that I hang almost willingly, that I allow to be there.

Why can’t I clear them away like I do the painted versions? Why not make a choice to think joyful thoughts, and to be as much a saint as I can…

…every day.

Deep thoughts by Margaret on a Saturday! See you on Monday when we get back.

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  1. Mrs. 2nd Lieutenant says

    October 30, 2010 at 5:22 pm

    lovely thoughts, Margaret, thank you for sharing!

    and? i'm glad i'm not the only one bothered by the removal of the All Saints obligation. ARgh!

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  2. Sarah Oldham says

    October 30, 2010 at 6:51 pm

    Well, when you figure out how to rid yourself of those webs, would you let me know? I'm going to pray about that for YOU as well as myself. I have a rats nest of webs. That doesn't make sense, but it does in that the imagery is confused.

    God, have mercy on me, a sinner. A sinner who loves You so very much! Amen.

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  3. scmom (Barbara) says

    October 30, 2010 at 9:23 pm

    Ask Your merciful Father in Heaven to clear them for you, Margaret. With God all things are possible! There must be a prayer for just such a thing. Will work on that for you. Happy Birthday dear Margaret's mother!

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  4. Sara says

    October 31, 2010 at 6:28 pm

    Margaret:

    My heart is with you in Wahpeton!! How I wish I could be there to visit my Grandma!!!! (my mom graduated from Wahpeton) We just moved farther away…..instead of Sara in South Dakota, I am now Sara in Illinois.
    But, we will be going there over Christmas sometime…..maybe our paths will cross.
    Safe travels home again!!
    Sara

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  5. Sara says

    October 31, 2010 at 6:34 pm

    P.S.

    I know that library…..it is within walking distance of the apartment where my Grandma lived. (she just moved down the street to the Leech Home) and walking distance to that beautiful, beautiful St. John's!!

    Oh, how I wish I could be there, too!
    🙂 Sara

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  6. Katie says

    November 1, 2010 at 5:59 pm

    I needed to read this post today. My cobwebs are plenty right now, and I need to just sit and meditate and be fully present for my babes. Thanks.

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